"That’s the thing that poisoned me from 2013 or 2012 to 2014, "we just want you to look beautiful" over, and over, and over in my head, until I just wanted to look ugly all the time. Please. Don’t tell me not do it cause you know it’s gonna happen.
It really crushed me. I’ve won grammys now, I’ve written albums, I’ve toured the world 4 times, and you’re telling me to look beautiful? that’s what this is about? It’s all back to tits and ass? That’s so sad.”
There will always be moments in your life when you feel vulnerable, awkward, and insecure. You will find yourself questioning even the littlest things you do. Just remember that your feelings are valid, and you deserve wonderful people and experiences in your life. You deserve to be happy. But try to feed that happiness to others, as well. Try to be kind to others.Kindness resonates beyond its receiver. The ripple effect of love is a beautiful thing. I want to inspire others and bring love and acceptance to the world through body positivity. I hope people can grow past the sexualized state of bodies that society has implemented, because I choose when I am being sexual, and now is not the time. So try to get comfy in your weird, fleshy blanket, and let yourself be warmed by your own body. You are capable of such incredible self love.
(ps: if you reblog this on porn blogs, I’m going to have to summon the goddesses Hera and Athena to come down and break all of your internet devices)
your PUBES ARE SO CUTE
Nathalie, you’re amazing and have such lovely things to say.